Release What Didn’t Start With You—So
Your Life Can Finally Move Forward
"You are not broken.
You are remembering."
Some struggles are not "personality." Some blocks are not "a lack of effort." Some patterns were never created by you.
They were learned in silence. Absorbed in childhood. Carried through generations.
Inherited.
And now… they end with you.
This work is not only about your life today. It is about what continues through your lineage. When you release the pattern, you do not break from your family—you free your bloodline from unconscious cycles of repetition.
You become the turning point. The one who transforms survival into awareness. The one who brings healing where there was history.
You are changing the generations
that are coming after you.
For Those Not Ready
to Decide Yet


What We Do
Ancestral Reset helps you break free from repeating patterns in relationships, money, self-worth, and inherited family emotion—so you can finally remember who you truly are.
Two private sessions.
Two expert guides.
66 days of support.
A 1:1 guided transformational 2-day or 8-week coaching experience, designed to help you identify and release emotional, behavioral, and belief patterns that were unconsciously passed down through your family system.
This work goes beyond motivation. Beyond affirmations. Beyond surface mindset tools. It focuses on clearing the origin of recurring struggles, so your nervous system, emotions, and decisions can begin operating from freedom rather than inheritance.
The Method
This program is powered by the Ancestral Recoding Method™—a structured 6-phase process designed to help you see your patterns, understand where they came from, release them, recode new responses, embody lasting change, and ultimately remember who you were before the pattern.

Phase 1: Awareness—"I see the pattern." You stop being unconsciously run by inherited patterns. You learn to recognize when they show up in your relationships, self-worth, money mindset, or body. Awareness brings the pattern into the light, where change becomes possible.

Phase 2: Lineage—"This didn't start with me. "You trace the pattern back to its origin in your family history. Without blame, you understand where it came from. This removes shame and helps you see that the pattern was never a personal failure—only an inherited survival program.

Phase 3: Release — "I no longer carry this." You let go of the stored emotional charge held in your body and energy system. Through gentle, guided practices, the weight lifts. You feel lighter, clearer, and finally free of what was never yours to carry.

Phase 4: Recode — "I choose differently." Once the old pattern is released, you install new beliefs in its place. Using meditation and hypnosis, we access the subconscious mind and plant empowering thoughts, responses, and identities. The old automatic reaction is replaced with a conscious, chosen way of being.

Phase 5: Embody—"I live this now." You integrate the new pattern into your daily life through nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and personalized rituals. Your body learns to respond to safety instead of survival. The change becomes not just mental but physical—felt in your bones, your breath, and your daily choices.

Phase 6: Remember—"I return to who I truly am." This is the final destination. Beyond breaking patterns and installing new beliefs, you reconnect with your essential self — the version of you that existed before the pattern ever took hold. You remember your innate wholeness, your purpose, and your freedom. The pattern ends. You come home to yourself.
What's Included
Pre-Session Reflection Form — A detailed intake form exploring:
Your current challenge
Your emotional experience around it
Early life experiences
Family patterns and stories
Repeating emotional themes
This gives us a map of your pattern before we ever meet.
Session 1 (60 min): Personalized Ancestral Reset — With Lilian in Spanish or Dionne in English. Covers Phases 1–3: Awareness, Lineage, Release. Together, we:
Identify the emotional root of your pattern
Trace its connection to inherited survival programs
Release the stored emotional charge
Reframe the internal meaning
Restore your sense of personal power
You leave with clarity, emotional lightness, and a personalized plan.
Session 2 (60 min): Integration Support—With Dionne, in English or Spanish. Covers Phase 4: Recode.
In this session, we:
Make sure your exercises are being done correctly
Answer your questions
Help you stabilize your new emotional state
Reinforce the new pattern
Practice a personalized guided meditation designed specifically for your healing journey
66 Days of WhatsApp Support—Guidance as you integrate the new pattern through Phases 5–6: Embody, Remember.
Free Community Access — Connect with others on the same path.
In just 2 days, you will: Identify one core pattern. Understand where it came from. Release the emotional charge. Begin rewiring your response. Start remembering who you are without the pattern.
Language paths: 🌿 For Spanish-speaking clients, Lilian facilitates Phases 1–3 in Spanish; Dionne facilitates Phases 4–6. 🌿 For English-speaking clients, Dionne facilitates all 6 phases.
Both paths lead to the same destination: freedom from inherited patterns and the remembrance of who you truly are.
Scope of This Experience
Each Ancestral Reset Experience — two sessions — focuses on one primary pattern. If a new challenge arises or you want to work on a different pattern, it requires a separate session and investment. This ensures each issue receives the depth and attention it deserves.
Including 66 Days of Support

Lilian Ruiz
"Many times you've tried to move forward, make decisions, or change situations in your life… and yet, something keeps repeating. It's not a lack of effort. It's information operating on autopilot. When you bring it into awareness, real change begins."
Lilian Ruiz is a Mexican therapist based in Dallas, Texas, with a background in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy influenced by Albert Ellis. She has trained in subconscious work and emotional reprogramming with Tony Robbins and Marisa Peer, and studied the biology of emotional conflict developed by Dr. Ryke Geerd Hamer.
Her specialty is identifying the emotional and subconscious origins of patterns that recur across a lifetime — patterns rooted in family history, inherited beliefs, and unconscious programming. With years of experience guiding hundreds of clients through this work, she brings a precise, compassionate, and deeply informed presence to the first three phases of your journey: helping you see the pattern, trace it back, and release the emotional charge it carries.
Her tools: Somatic Awareness (releasing what your body has held for years, sometimes generations), Intention Journaling (uncovering hidden patterns and mapping your transformation), and Healing Rituals (anchoring release into lived experience, not just insight).

Dionne Setien
"Have you ever felt like you've done the work, grown, learned, and healed… yet the same emotional pattern still returns?"
Born in Havana, Cuba, and raised in Miami, Dionne was early influenced by Carl Jung's work on reconciling the conscious and unconscious mind, and later integrated the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy approach pioneered by Aaron Beck. Her training includes The 6 Phase Meditation (Vishen Lakhiani), The Silva UltraMind System, Rapid Transformational Hypnotherapy with Marisa Peer, and additional study in nervous-system and subconscious work.
She guides you through installing new beliefs, regulating your nervous system, and returning to who you truly are — using meditation and hypnosis to access the subconscious directly and personalized integration tools tailored to your specific pattern.
Her tools: Meditation & Hypnosis (installing new beliefs at the subconscious level), Nervous System Regulation (teaching your body to respond from safety rather than fear), Personalized Affirmations (rewiring self-doubt into self-trust), Mindfulness Techniques, and Breathwork (real-time nervous system regulation).
Is This For You?
Strong emotional attachment patterns or insecurity in relationships
Recurring emotional responses in close relationships
Money mindset patterns that don't reflect your effort
Limiting beliefs about your worth or success
Feeling unseen, undervalued, or "not enough"
Fear of abandonment or sensitivity to rejection
Recurring shame, embarrassment, or unexplained guilt
Feeling unclear about your direction in life
Emotional patterns you can trace to family experience
What this work
asks of you
This program is for people who are truly ready to engage in deep personal growth. Because it involves emotional awareness, daily practice, and new ways of responding to life, it isn't the right fit for everyone.
To participate, you'll need:
Full willingness to learn—genuine openness to explore your patterns and reflect honestly, even when it's uncomfortable.
Full willingness to change—readiness to apply the tools and practices consistently, even when they feel unfamiliar.
This work requires a genuine internal commitment. That means being willing to do things differently than you have before, practicing the exercises as guided, staying engaged through the full 66-day integration period, and applying the tools in real situations—not just understanding them intellectually.
Real change happens through repetition, awareness, and action. The guidance and support are ours to provide. The transformation happens through your participation.
How to know you're ready: if you've done inner work before but some patterns keep returning… if you're willing to show up consistently, even when it's uncomfortable… if you're open to exploring family history without blame… If you feel called to be the turning point for your lineage—that pull is often the sign. You don't need to feel ready perfectly. You need to feel the pull and be willing to follow it.
If you're looking for a passive experience or instant results without daily involvement, this isn't the right fit. If you're ready to show up fully for your growth, this work can support you more deeply than almost anything else available.
A Real Ancestral Healing Case
Dionne experienced deep, inherited beliefs about scarcity, sacrifice, and the fear of success—passed down through her maternal lineage, shaped by growing up in a communist country for most of her childhood.
The result? Her body stopped reacting as if prospering were dangerous. The internal alarm that used to make her lose, hold back, or shrink every time she moved forward… turned off. Her limiting belief about money disappeared. Money no longer triggered tension, guilt, or fear—her system began to hold it with a sense of safety instead. More emotional peace. More confidence in leadership. More focus and stability in decision-making. And a deep internal sense of freedom from inherited limitation.
If this resonated with you—if you've felt this way, if you're holding yourself back and don't know why—you are not broken. Your system is just responding to something deeper. And yes, you're in the right place.
The Practices That Create Real Change
You'll receive personalized integration exercises, including:
Emotional release writing
The "Emotional Well" clearing practice
Guided ancestral belief reframe statements
Letting-go rituals (symbolic release processes)
Grounding and embodiment techniques
Nervous system calming tools
These practices are done over 30–66 days to help your system fully adopt the new pattern.
What Makes Ancestral Reset Different
Ancestral Reset was created from lived experience, not theory. The methods in this program were first applied in Dionne's own life and in hundreds of Lilian's client sessions—then refined through real-world guidance. This is not about selling an ideal transformation. It's a structured, practical process for emotional awareness, pattern change, and real-life integration for people willing to do the work.
Lilian has years of certified expertise and hundreds of cases, identifying what's been quietly running in the background of your life. Her approach is precise, compassionate, and rooted in a deep respect for each client's lineage.
Dionne's expertise comes from years of study and experience in psychological settings. But more than that, this work was first applied to her own life. She healed her inherited patterns, regulated her nervous system, and rewrote her subconscious beliefs before she ever guided anyone else.

Nervous System Regulation—daily practices so the change is physical, not only mental.

The Remembering Phase—not just breaking patterns, but returning to who you truly are.

66 Days of Support — ongoing guidance that ensures the pattern doesn't quietly return.
This exact combination exists nowhere else—not because it's a secret, but because it's the result of a convergence that isn't easily found. And it won't stay this way forever: once we've fulfilled our mission of guiding 1,000 people, we'll begin training other facilitators so this method can reach more corners of the world—training others to do what we do today. What you receive now, with us, live, 1:1, will not be repeated in the same way again.
If you feel the call, don't let it pass. Your lineage needs you, and we are here for you.
This Is Your Moment
You can continue managing the surface patterns. Or you can explore the root that keeps recreating the same emotional experience.
You were not meant to carry the emotional weight of generations. When you change your internal response, you shift what continues through your lineage.
Hundreds of people have walked this path before you and now live in freedom. Now it's your turn. Your future descendants will thank you.
LIMITED-TIME AVAILABILITY
This 2-day experience, at this price and with this level of personalized attention, will not be available forever.
We've built a method that integrates Ancestral Pattern Awareness (with Lilian), Subconscious Recoding & Hypnosis (with Dionne), Nervous System Regulation, the Remembering Process, and 66 days of direct support from both of us.
Once we've personally guided 1,000 people through this journey, we'll close this door to focus on training other facilitators who can carry this method further.
If you're reading this today, there's still space for you—we don't know for how much longer.
Results Clients Often Experience
Greater emotional clarity—you understand why you feel what you feel. A sense of peace and inner safety—calm becomes your baseline, not the exception. More conscious decisions—you choose, rather than react. Healthier relationships—old patterns no longer dictate how you connect. Real progress across your life—change shows up in career, money, self-worth, and purpose.
A: o. Ancestral Reset is a coaching and personal development experience, designed for educational and transformational purposes. It is not a substitute for psychotherapy, medical care, or treatment by a licensed mental health professional. If you're experiencing severe trauma or clinical mental health issues, we encourage you to seek support from a licensed therapist.
A: Our proprietary 6-phase process, designed to help you identify, release, and transform inherited emotional patterns:
Phase 1: Awareness — Identify the pattern. "I see the pattern."
Phase 2: Lineage — Understand where it came from. "This didn't start with me."
Phase 3: Release — Let go of the emotional charge. "I no longer carry this."
Phase 4: Recode — Install new beliefs. "I choose differently."
Phase 5: Embody — Integrate change into daily life. "I live this now."
Phase 6: Remember — Return to who you truly are. "I return to who I truly am."
For Spanish-speaking clients, Lilian facilitates Phases 1–3; Dionne facilitates Phase 4 in session, and Phases 5–6 via WhatsApp support.
A: The 2-Day Experience focuses on identifying and releasing one core pattern with full integration support. The 8-Week Private Experience is a deeper immersion for multiple patterns or more complex issues, offering more sessions and extended support.
2-Day Experience
2 sessions + 66 days WhatsApp support
Phases Covered :
Phases 1-3 in Session 1
Phase 4 in Session 2
Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support
Best For: Releasing one core pattern
8-Week Private Experience
Format: 8 sessions + extended support throughout the program
Phases Covered: All 6 phases (Awareness → Lineage → Release → Recode → Embody → Remember)
Best For: Multi-layer, deep transformation
A: 2-Day Experience
Phases 1-3 in Session 1
(with Lilian or Dionne).
Phase 4 in Session 2
(with Dionne)
Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support.
Best For: Releasing one core pattern with full integration support.
8-Week Program: Both facilitators are involved throughout. Lilian guides Phases 1-3 for Spanish speakers; Dionne guides Phases 4-6 for English or Spanish speakers.
You are supported by both facilitators throughout
your entire journey. Lilian Ruiz in Spanish or Dionne in English.
Translation for English speakers working with Lilian on the 2-Day Ancestral Reset Program is available as a rare, special-case service for an additional fee. Contact us for more information.
A: Yes. After enrollment, you will receive a detailed Pre-Session Reflection Form. Completing this honestly is the first and most important step.
A: This is such an important question—and the very fact that you're asking it tells me something about you.
This program is designed for individuals who are ready to move from insight to action.
It is not about being "perfect" or having everything figured out. It is about having a high teachability index—a genuine willingness to:
Look honestly at your patterns without judgment
Apply the practices consistently, even when they feel unfamiliar
Trust the process and allow yourself to be guided
If you feel a pull toward this work—even with some nervousness—that pull is often a sign that you are ready. The question is not whether you can do it perfectly.
A: The Ancestral Recoding Method™ is delivered in two languages to serve a wider community.
For Spanish-speaking clients: Lilian Ruiz facilitates Phases 1-3. Dionne Setien facilitates Phase 4 in the second session, and Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support.
For English-speaking clients: Dionne Setien facilitates all 6 phases of the method, integrating her expertise in meditation, hypnosis, and nervous system regulation.
Both paths lead to the same destination: freedom from inherited patterns and the remembrance of who you truly are.
A: In special cases, English-speaking clients may request to work with Lilian, with Dionne serving as a translator during the session. However, this is a rare, special-case service and is subject to additional fees and availability. Due to the high level of personalized attention required, this option is not available for the full 8-week program and cannot be guaranteed.
If you are an English speaker interested in this option, please contact us directly to discuss your specific situation.
A: That's a very fair question, and I appreciate you asking it.
The honest answer is this is not marketing—it's a mission.
The Ancestral Reset program, as we offer it today—with 1:1 attention, with direct participation from Lilian and me, and with this level of deep support—cannot scale infinitely. Our energy is limited, and our intention has always been to offer quality, not quantity.
We have made a commitment to ourselves: to personally guide the first 1,000 people through this journey. After that, we will close this door to focus on training other facilitators who can carry this unique method to more places.
If you are reading this today, it means there is still a space for you. But we don't know for how much longer.
When the program is no longer available in this format, it will not return. That's why we say, "This moment is unique." This opportunity is too.
A: What a beautiful question—and you're right to want to understand what makes this approach special.
What we offer in Ancestral Reset exists nowhere else. Not because it's a secret, but because it is the result of a unique convergence that is not easily found:
Ancestral Pattern Awareness
Lilian brings years of certified expertise and hundreds of positive cases to the art of identifying inherited patterns. Her approach is precise, compassionate, and rooted in a deep respect for each client's lineage. She helps you see what has been quietly running in the background of your life—patterns that were never yours to carry.
Subconscious Recoding & Hypnosis (Dionne)
Dionne's expertise comes from years of study and experience in psychological settings, working with clients to install new beliefs at a deep level and regulate their nervous system. But more than that, this work was first applied to her own life. She healed her inherited patterns, regulated her nervous system, and rewrote her subconscious beliefs before she ever guided anyone else.
Nervous System Regulation
Daily practices so the change is not just mental, but physical
The Remembering Phase
Not just breaking patterns—returning to who you truly are
66 Days of Support
Ongoing support that ensures the pattern does not return
Two Facilitators, One Purpose
The combination of two perspectives, two experiences, and two hearts working in sync for you. It's not just "another method."
Together, they offer something rare: the integration of years of training, hundreds of real cases, and a deep, lived respect for the lineage of those who come to them. This is not a theory. This is wisdom earned through personal transformation.
And here's the most beautiful part: this unique approach will not stay only with us forever.
In the future, once we have fulfilled our mission of guiding 1,000 people, we will begin training other facilitators so this method can reach more corners of the world. But that training will be to teach others to do what we do today.
What you receive now—with us, live, 1:1—will not be repeated.
That's why we say, if you feel the call, don't let it pass. Your lineage needs you, and we are here for you.
Are you willing to show up and try?

Limiting Beliefs About Worth or Success
Imagine a life without the quiet voice saying you're not good enough—where you walk into rooms knowing you belong.
Case Study: David, 33, had built a successful career but felt like an impostor daily. Through ancestral decoding coaching, he traced this feeling to a family story about his mother, who was told as a girl that women didn't belong in leadership. After releasing the inherited pattern, David delivered a keynote presentation without the usual dread—and finally allowed himself to believe the applause.


Feeling Unseen, Devalued, or "Not Enough"
Imagine a life without the ache of being invisible—where your presence matters and your voice is heard.
Case Study: Laura, 40, felt overlooked in every group, despite her accomplishments. She discovered this pattern connected to her great-grandmother, a gifted artist whose work was never acknowledged in her community. After completing the ancestral release process, Laura finally pitched her business idea—and secured funding.


Shame or Humiliation Patterns
Imagine a life without the heat rising in your chest when you remember old mistakes—where you walk free from the past.
Case Study: Carmen, 45, carried shame from a public failure years ago, though no one else remembered it. In her session, she discovered that her grandmother had been publicly shamed in her village, and the emotional pattern had been carried forward through the family line. After release, Carmen shared, "The memory is still there—but the shame is gone."


Jealousy or Insecurity in Relationships
Imagine a life without the constant knot in your stomach when your partner is away—a life where trust comes easily and you feel secure in love, no matter what.
Case Study: Sofía, 31, noticed jealousy arising in every relationship, even with partners who had given her no reason to doubt. In her ancestral coaching session, she traced this pattern to stories passed down about her grandmother's wartime loss. After completing the release and integration process, Sofía reported feeling "calm inside for the first time" when her partner traveled for work.


Repetitive Partner Conflict
Imagine a life without the same painful arguments playing out again and again—where conflict becomes connection, not combat.
Case Study: Michael, 40, recognized he kept choosing emotionally unavailable partners. Through ancestral exploration, he discovered this pattern mirrored unspoken dynamics in his father's family. After releasing the inherited emotional charge, Michael found himself naturally drawn to a different kind of partner—and for the first time, early conflicts led to productive conversations rather than disconnection.


Money Struggles That Don't Match Your Effort
Imagine a life without the ceiling that appears just as you're about to succeed—where your income finally reflects your work and worth.
Case Study: Elena, 29, worked harder than anyone she knew, but could never seem to keep money. In her session, she uncovered that her grandfather had lost everything during political upheaval, and she had unconsciously absorbed a family pattern of financial instability. After completing the release and integration practices, Elena landed a promotion within two months—and for the first time, felt capable of holding onto it.


Guilt Without Clear Cause
Imagine a life without the vague, persistent guilt that has no source—where you finally feel innocent.
Case Study: Theresa, 33, felt guilty anytime she rested or allowed herself to enjoy life. Through ancestral decoding coaching, she traced this to her great-uncle, who had survived a family tragedy while others didn't, and whose unprocessed guilt had echoed through the generations. After completing her release work, Theresa took her first vacation in years—without guilt.


Lack of Direction or Identity Confusion
Imagine a life without the fog of not knowing who you are—where your path feels clear and your purpose certain.
Case Study: Leila, 24, felt lost after college, unable to choose a direction. She discovered through ancestral exploration that her mother had been encouraged to abandon her own dreams to support the family, and Leila was unconsciously honoring that sacrifice by not pursuing her own path. After releasing the inherited pattern, she enrolled in the program she had been afraid to try.


Emotional Heaviness Connected to Family History
Imagine a life without the weight that has no name—where you feel light, free, and fully present in your own body.
Case Study: Andre, 31, carried a sadness he couldn't explain. In his ancestral coaching session, he discovered that his grandfather had lost multiple siblings during a time of famine but never spoke of it—and the grief had been carried in the family's emotional field ever since. After release, Andre said, "I didn't realize I'd been carrying that weight until it was gone."

Results Clients Often Experience
Some patterns don't shift in a few days. They were learned over the years—sometimes passed down through generations. The 8-Week Private Experience is built for those ready to go deeper, with close 1:1 guidance from both Lilian and Dionne, working at the emotional root and installing responses that last.
A FINAL MESSAGE FROM DIONNE
If you've made it to the end of this page, it means something in you is listening. Something in you is remembering.
You are not here by chance. The universe guided you here because it knows you are ready to put down that heavy spiritual backpack you've been carrying—the one that was never yours to hold.
Let me tell you my story.
Not too long ago, I was where you are now. I felt like I was going through the motions of life without truly living it. Something was always… off. Heavy. Incomplete.
I grew up in a communist country, surrounded by scarcity, silence, and survival. Without knowing it, I had absorbed beliefs that weren't mine: that money was hard to earn, that wanting more was dangerous, that my needs would always come last. These beliefs came from my maternal line—from women who had no choice but to survive.
And even though I no longer lived in that reality, my body and my subconscious still did. So I did the work. I surrendered to the ancestral rewiring—that deep process of evolutionary reprogramming where you don't just understand the patterns, you rewrite them from the root.
I practiced the exercises daily. I regulated my nervous system. I embraced meditation and hypnosis.
And little by little, something began to shift.
It wasn't immediate. I remember feeling for several days as if I wasn't myself anymore—as if I had been deprogrammed from all my limiting beliefs.
Suddenly, there was nothing left to worry about. But I also felt the emptiness of what was no longer there. That space between what I used to carry and what I didn't yet understand about myself. A strange limbo. Disorienting. Necessary.
And then, around day 40, the click happened.
The moment you realize you are no longer the same person who started this journey. The new version of you—the one you didn't even know existed—had finally arrived to stay.
I didn't just feel better about myself. I became a different version of myself. A more elevated Dionne. More at peace. More powerful. I was no longer the woman who survived—I was the woman who lived with purpose, clarity, and freedom.
I honored my ancestors. I thanked them for their teachings because they did what they could with what they had. And then, gently, I set down what was theirs and walked forward with only what was mine.
And now I am here. To walk with you.
This is work that, if you do it consistently and with discipline, you will achieve. And we will both see it. The ancestral decoding process is not magic—it is soul science. It is consistency. It is surrender. It is coming home to yourself.
The shift you've been waiting for is possible. And it begins the moment you decide that the pattern ends with you. And when the pattern ends… You remember who you've always been.