Release What Didn’t Start With You—So Your Life Can Finally Move Forward
"You are not broken. You are remembering."
Some struggles are not "personality."
Some blocks are not a "lack of effort."
Some patterns were
never created by you.
They were learned in silence.
Absorbed in childhood.
Carried through generations.
Inherited.
And now… they end with you.
This work is not only
about your life today.
It is about what continues through your lineage.
When you release the
pattern, you
do not break from your
family—are you free
your bloodline from
unconscious cycles of repetition.
You become the
turning point. The one who
transforms survival
into awareness.
The one who brings healing where
there was history.
You are not just changing your life.
You are changing the generations
that are coming after you.
"You are not broken. You are remembering".
Ancestral Reset helps individuals break free from repeating patterns in relationships, money, self-worth, and inherited family emotions—so they can finally remember who they truly are
Two private sessions/ Two expert guides/ 66 days of support.
Welcome to Ancestral Reset
A 1:1 guided transformational 2-day or 8-week coaching experience designed to help you identify and release emotional, behavioral, and belief patterns that were unconsciously passed down through your family system.
This work goes beyond motivation. Beyond affirmations. Beyond surface mindset tools.
It focuses on clearing the origin of recurring struggles so your nervous system, emotions, and decisions can begin operating from freedom rather than inheritance.
Honor Your Lineage. Free Yourself.
Ancestral Reset
2-Day Experience
Awareness → Lineage → Release → Recode → Embody → Remember
This program is powered by the Ancestral Recoding Method™—a structured 6-phase process designed to help you see your patterns, understand where they came from, release them, recode new responses, embody lasting change, and ultimately... remember who you were before the pattern.
Phase 1: Awareness
"I see the pattern."
You stop being unconsciously run by inherited patterns. You learn to recognize when they show up in your relationships, your self-worth, your money mindset, or your body. Awareness brings the pattern into the light—where change becomes possible.
Phase 2: Lineage
"This didn't start with me."
You trace the pattern back to its origin in your family history. Without blame, you understand where it came from. This removes shame and helps you see that the pattern was never a personal failure—only an inherited survival program.
Phase 3: Release
"I no longer carry this."
You let go of the stored emotional charge held in your body and energy system. Through gentle, guided practices, the weight lifts. You feel lighter, clearer, and finally free of what was never yours to carry.
Phase 4: Recode
"I choose differently."
Once the old pattern is released, you install new beliefs in its place. Using meditation and hypnosis, you access the subconscious mind and plant empowering thoughts, responses, and identities. The old automatic reaction is replaced with a conscious, chosen way of being
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Phase 5: Embody
"I live this now."
You integrate the new pattern into your daily life through nervous system regulation, somatic practices, and personalized rituals. Your body learns to respond to safety instead of survival. The change becomes not just mental, but physical—felt in your bones, your breath, and your daily choices.
Phase 6: Remember
"I return to who I truly am."
This is the final destination. Beyond breaking patterns and installing new beliefs, you reconnect with your essential self—the version of you that existed before the pattern ever took hold. You remember your innate wholeness, your purpose, and your freedom. The pattern ends. You come home to yourself.
Meet Your Facilitators
The Dream Team
Guided by Two Experts, One Shared Purpose
Lilian Ruiz
Title: Certified Facilitator – Ancestral Pattern Release
Bio Snippet: Lilian Ruiz is a certified facilitator who works with Spanish-speaking clients on the first session of the Ancestral Reset Program.
Lilian guides the exploration of deep emotional roots with precision and gentleness in Spanish.
In the first session, she helps you identify and release inherited patterns at their source, facilitating Phases 1-3 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™: Awareness, Lineage, and Release.
Phase 1: Awareness—"I see the pattern."
Phase 2: Lineage—"This didn't start with me."
Phase 3: Release—"I no longer carry this."
Focus: Pattern Identification & Release.
Dionne Setien
Title: Mindvalley Certified Life Coach, Meditation Instructor & Hypnotherapist.
Bio Snippet: Dionne Setien is a certified facilitator who works with Spanish and English-speaking clients on the second session of the Ancestral Reset Program.
During the second session for Spanish-speaking clients, Dionne facilitates Phase 4 (Recode) of the Ancestral Recoding Method™ and Phases 5 and 6 during support via WhatsApp.
The same process is applied for English-speaking clients. During the second session, Dionne facilitates Phase 4 (Recode) of the Ancestral Recoding Method™. Phases 5 and 6 will be provided via WhatsApp during support, guiding you from Awareness to Remembering through meditation, hypnosis, nervous system regulation, and personalized integration tools. She helps you install new beliefs, integrate lasting change, and return to who you truly are."
Phase 4: Recode "I choose differently."
Phase 5: Embody
Phase 6: Remember
Focus: Pattern Identification, Release, Integration & Stabilization.
Ready to gently explore the patterns and stories
that have shaped you?
Download "7 Days to Awaken Your Ancestral Light"—a free, soulful guide to help you reconnect with the wisdom of your lineage and the freedom of your own heart.
Comienza tu viaje de regreso a casa. ¿Lista para explorar con suavidad los patrones e historias que te han formado?
Descarga "7 Días para Despertar Tu Luz Ancestral"
2-Day Ancestral Reset Experience
A focused 2-day journey using the Ancestral Recoding Method™ to identify and release one core pattern
Identify inherited emotional programs
Together, we will gently uncover the emotional patterns that have been quietly running in the background of your life—patterns that were learned long before you arrived. You will begin to see clearly what has been yours to carry and what was passed down.
Understand how they show up in your life today
You will explore how these inherited programs influence your relationships, your self-worth, your money mindset, and even the way you move through the world. This understanding brings compassion, not blame—and compassion opens the door to change.
Release the emotional charge connected to those patterns
Through guided practices and gentle facilitation, you will release the stored emotional weight that has been held in your body and energy for years—perhaps generations. This is not a forceful letting go but a loving, supported release.
Install new internal beliefs and nervous system responses
Once the old patterns are cleared, we create space for new ones to take root.
You will receive personalized tools to rewire your subconscious beliefs and calm your nervous system, so your body learns to respond from a place of freedom, not survival. These tools are crafted for your unique story—your triggers, your desired way of being.
Over time, what once felt automatic and heavy becomes conscious and light. Your nervous system learns to trust safety, and you begin to respond to life from a place of choice, not reaction.
2-Day Ancestral Experience
Powered by the Ancestral
Recoding Method™ — Awareness. Lineage. Release. Recode. Embody. Remember.
Move forward with greater clarity, stability, and emotional lightness
As the fog of inherited patterns lifts, you will find
yourself living with more peace, more presence, and more
trust in yourself.
Life becomes simpler, lighter, and more fully your own.
This is not about blaming your family. It is about freeing yourself from repeating unconscious cycles.
🌿 For Spanish-speaking clients, Lilian Ruiz facilitates
Phases 1-3 in Spanish, and Dionne Setien facilitates Phases 4-6.*
🌿 For English-speaking clients, Dionne Setien facilitates all 6 phases of the Ancestral Recoding Method™.
Both paths lead to the same destination: freedom from inherited
patterns and the remembrance of who you truly are
This is not about becoming someone new. It's about REMEMBERING who you were before the pattern
Begin again.
$499 – Including
66 days of support
What's Included
Pre-Session Reflection Form—To map your pattern before we meet. One core issue
Session 1
(60 min): Personalized Ancestral Reset—Root exploration and release with Lilian Ruiz in Spanish or in English with Dionne.
Phase 1: Awareness
Phase 2: Lineage
Phase 3: Release
Session 2
(60 min): Integration Support—Stabilize your new state with Dionne Setien in English or Spanish.
Phase 4: Recode
66 Days of WhatsApp Support—Guidance as you integrate the new pattern.
Phase 5: Embody
Phase 6: Remember
Free Community Access – Connect with others on the same path.
In just 2 days, you will:
Identify one core pattern
Understand where it came from
Release the emotional charge
Begin rewiring your response
Start remembering who you are without the pattern
Ancestral Reset
2-Day Program
Powered by the Ancestral Recoding Method™: Awareness → Lineage → Release → Recode → Embody → Remember
1️⃣ Pre-Session Reflection Form
You complete a detailed intake form that explores the following:
• Your current challenge
• Your emotional experience around it
• Early life experiences
• Family patterns and stories
• Repeating emotional themes
This gives us a map of the pattern before we meet.
2️⃣ Personalized Ancestral Reset Session: 60 minutes
You are guided by Lilian through a structured process where we:
• Identify the emotional root of your pattern
• Trace its connection to inherited survival programs
• Release stored emotional charge
• Reframe the internal meaning
• Restore your sense of personal power
• You leave with clarity, emotional lightness, and a personalized plan.
This is Phase 1-3 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™:
Awareness, Lineage, and Release.
3️⃣ Integration Support Session
60 minutes.
You meet with Dionne for integration support to:
• Ensure exercises are being done correctly
• Answer questions
• Help you stabilize the new emotional state
• Reinforce the new pattern
• Practice a personalized guided meditation
designed specifically for your healing journey
This session supports the release work and helps
you begin integrating the shift.
This is Phase 4 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™:
Recode.
4️⃣ Ongoing WhatsApp Support
Day 1 through Day 66
You receive private message support:
• Phase 5 (Embody) and 6 (Remember)
• Ask questions about the exercises
• Receive guidance if you feel stuck
• Stay consistent with daily practices
• Adjust integration tools as needed
5️⃣Free Community Access
Connect with others on the same path.
This continued support helps you stay accountable and supported
while your system adapts to the new pattern.
For Spanish-speaking clients, Lilian Ruiz facilitates Phases 1-3 (Awareness, Lineage, and Release)
and Dionne Setien facilitates Phase 4 (Recode), Phase 5 (Embody), and Phase 6 (Remember) through WhatsApp support.
For English-speaking clients, Dionne Setien facilitates all 6 phases 1-4 in
two sessions and phases 5 and 6 through WhatsApp support.
Dionne will integrate her expertise in meditation, hypnosis, and the nervous system
regulation to guide you from Awareness to Remembering.
Both paths with Lilian or Dionne will lead to the same destination: freedom from inherited
patterns and the remembrance of who you truly are."
For a deeper transformation covering all 6 phases
(Awareness, Lineage, Release, Recode, Embody, and Remember),
explore the 8-Week Private Experience.
Your Ancestors Didn't Have
This Choice. You Do.
This Program Is for You If…
You notice that no matter how much you grow, something keeps pulling you back into:
• Strong emotional attachment patterns in relationships
• Jealousy or insecurity in relationships
• Recurring emotional response patterns in close relationships
• Money mindset patterns that don't reflect your effort
• Limiting beliefs about your worth or success
• Feeling unseen, undervalued, or “not enough.”
• Fear of abandonment or sensitivity to rejection
• Recurring feelings of shame or embarrassment
• Unexplained guilt patterns
• Feeling unclear about direction in life
• Emotional patterns influenced by family experiences
Each experience addresses a
core issue to enable deep, focused transformation.
Created With Intention – Available Now, Not Forever
Stop Repeating the Past.
Start Living Your Story.
A Real Ancestral
Healing Case
Dionne Setien's Ancestral Reset Case
Dionne experienced deep, inherited beliefs about scarcity, sacrifice, and
the fear of success, passed down through her maternal lineage, due to the fact that she lived in a communist country almost her entire childhood.
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The result?
Her body stopped reacting
as if prospering were dangerous. The internal alarm that used to make her
lose, hold back, or shrink every time she moved forward…turned off.
Her limiting belief about money disappeared. Money no longer triggered
tension, guilt, or fear in her—and her system began to hold it with safety. More emotional peace. More confidence in leadership.
More focus and stability in
decision-making. And a deep internal sense of freedom from inherited limitations.
Her body stopped reacting
as if prospering were dangerous.
The internal alarm that used to make her
lose, hold back, or shrink every time
she moved forward…turned off.
Her limiting belief about money
disappeared. Money no longer triggered
tension, guilt, or fear in her—and her system
began to hold it with safety.
More emotional peace.
More confidence in leadership.
More focus and stability in
decision-making.
And a deep internal sense of
freedom from inherited limitation.
Integration:
If this resonated with you… if you've felt this way…if you're holding yourself back and don't know why…You are not broken… your system is just responding to something deeper. And yes… you are in the right place.
The Practices That
Create Real Change
You will receive personalized integration
exercises, such as:
• Emotional release writing
• The “Emotional Well” clearing practice
• Guided ancestral belief reframe statements
• Letting-go rituals (symbolic release processes)
• Grounding and embodiment techniques
• Nervous system calming tools
These practices are done for 30-66 days to help your system fully adopt the new pattern.
Your Healing Begins Here
What Makes Ancestral Reset Different?
Ancestral Reset was created from lived experience, not theory.
The methods shared in this program were first applied in Dionne’s own life and in hundreds of Lilian's clients to release inherited emotional patterns and were then refined through guiding others in real-world situations.
This is not about selling an ideal transformation—it is a structured, practical process designed to support emotional awareness, pattern change, and real-life integration for those who are willing to do the work.
This Is Your Moment
You can continue managing the surface patterns…
Or you can explore the root that keeps recreating the same emotional experience.
You were not meant to carry the emotional weight of generations.
When you change your internal responses, you shift what continues through your lineage.
Hundreds of people have walked this path before you. They broke their patterns and now live in freedom.
Now it's your turn.
Your future descendants will thank you.
Ready to put down what was never yours?
Honor Your Lineage. Free Yourself.
Program Requirements
The Ancestral Reset Experience is designed for individuals
who are truly ready to engage in deep personal growth.
Because this work involves emotional awareness, daily
practices, and new ways of responding to life, not everyone
will be a good fit.
To participate, you must have:
✨ Full Willingness to Learn
A genuine openness to explore your emotional
patterns, reflect
honestly, and consider new perspectives.
✨ Full Willingness to Change
A readiness to take responsibility for your growth by applying
the tools and practices consistently—even when it feels
unfamiliar or challenging.
This program requires an internal commitment level of 10 out of 10.
That means:
• Being willing to do things differently than you have in the past
• Practicing the exercises as instructed
• Staying engaged for the full integration period
• Applying the tools in real-life situations
Real change happens through repetition, awareness, and
action. The guidance and support are provided—the transformation
happens through your participation.
If you are looking for a passive experience or a quick
results without daily involvement, this program
may not be the right fit.
If you are ready to show up fully for your growth, this work
can be deeply supportive.
Limited-Time Special Offer
Powered by the Ancestral Recoding Method™ — Awareness. Lineage. Release. Recode. Embody. Remember.
This 2-day experience, at this price and with this level of personalized attention, will not be available forever.
We have created a unique method that integrates:
✨ Ancestral Pattern Awareness (with Lilian)
✨ Subconscious Recoding & Hypnosis (with Dionne)
✨ Nervous System Regulation
✨ The Remembering Process
✨ Deep 66 Days of support (with Lilian & Dionne)
Once we have guided 1,000 people through their transformation, we will close this door to focus on training other facilitators in our unique method who can carry this work to more places.
This moment is unique. This opportunity is too.
Ready to put down what was never yours?
Claim Your Freedom
Scope
of This 1:1
2-Session
Experience
Each Ancestral Reset Experience,
consisting of two sessions, focuses
on ONE PRIMARY ISSUE.
If a new challenge arises, or if you wish to work
on a different pattern, which requires
A SEPARATE SESSION AND INVESTMENT.
This ensures each issue receives
the depth and attention it deserves.
Results of the Ancestral
Reset Process
Clients who complete this journey often experience:
Greater emotional clarity
You understand why you feel what you feel
A sense of peace and inner safety
Calm becomes your baseline, not an exception
More conscious decisions
You choose, rather than react
Healthier relationships
Old patterns no longer dictate how you connect
Real progress in
different areas of life
Change shows up in your career, money, self-worth, and purpose
Start Your Journey Home
Learn More About the
Dream Team
Lilian Ruiz
Bachelor's Degree in Psychology | Master's Degree in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Certified Facilitator – Ancestral Pattern Release
Facilitator of Phases 1-3 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™:
Awareness, Lineage, and Release in Spanish.
"Many times you've tried to move forward, make decisions, or change situations in your life… and yet, something keeps repeating.
It's not a lack of effort. It's information operating on autopilot.
When you bring it into awareness, real change begins."
Lilian Ruiz is a Mexican therapist based in Dallas, Texas, with a bachelor's degree in psychology and a master's degree in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, influenced by the work of Albert Ellis.
Throughout her career, she has integrated different therapeutic approaches focused on understanding the deep origin of emotional conflicts and repetitive patterns.
She has training in subconscious work, personal development, and emotional reprogramming, based on studies and trainings with Tony Robbins and Marisa Peer, as well as the analysis of emotional conflicts from the perspective of biology and emotional memory developed by Dr. Ryke Geerd Hamer.
Her specialty lies in identifying the emotional and subconscious origin of conflicts that repeat in people's lives—patterns that often have roots in family history, inherited beliefs, and unconscious programming.
With years of experience helping hundreds of individuals break free from these inherited patterns, she integrates psychology-informed, emotional, and systemic tools to facilitate deep and sustainable change.
Her approach is precise, compassionate, and rooted in a profound understanding of how the past continues to shape the present—and how releasing what was never yours can transform your entire life.
Within the Ancestral Recoding Method™, Lilian guides Phases 1-3: Awareness, Lineage, and Release.
This program is for individuals who feel stuck in repeating patterns—in relationships, money, self-worth, or family emotions—and who sense these patterns didn't start with them.
It is for those who are ready to break the cycle and remember who they truly are.
Lilian Ruiz is a certified facilitator who works with Spanish-speaking clients. For English-speaking clients, all 6 phases of the Ancestral Recoding Method™ are delivered by Dionne Setien.
Dionne Setien
Associate Degree in Psychology | Master of Science degree in Psychology, with a focus on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
Mindvalley Certified Life Coach, Meditation Instructor & Hypnotherapist
*Facilitator of Phases 4-6 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™: Recode, Embody, and Remember in Spanish and all phases in English.*
"Have you ever felt like you've done the work, grown, learned, and healed… yet the same emotional pattern still returns?"
"I guide individuals in recognizing and releasing inherited emotional patterns, subconscious beliefs, and nervous system responses that quietly shape their decisions, relationships, and sense of worth—so they can live with clarity, stability, and inner freedom."
Dionne Setien, born in La Habana, Cuba, and raised in Miami, Florida, holds a Master of Science degree in Psychology. At the beginning of her career in psychology, she was profoundly influenced by Carl Jung's work, particularly his teachings on reconciling the conscious mind with the unconscious to achieve psychological wholeness.
Over the years, she has integrated the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) approach, influenced by its founder, Aaron T. Beck, recognizing the importance of addressing the conscious mind, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors to help individuals modify their patterns and practice the here and now.
Her academic foundation is enriched by extensive training in subconscious reprogramming and holistic healing, including The 6 Phase Meditation, the famous method created by Vishen Lakhiani and used by celebrities ranging from sports figures to actors and political leaders. She has also studied The Silva UltraMind System, Rapid Transformational Hypnotherapy for Abundance with Marisa Peer, The Formula by Dr. Joe Dispenza, Your Wish is Your Command by Kevin Trudeau, Ultra Presence with Juan Pablo Barahona, Quantum Jumping with Burt Goldman, Calm Mind with Dr. Caroline Leaf, Gut Health for Better Mind, Body and Longevity with Naveen Jain, Wildfit with Eric Edmeades, and more.
Through this unique blend of academic knowledge and hands-on training, Dionne brings years of applied wisdom from psychology-informed environments to her work as a wellness coach, meditation instructor, and hypnotherapist.
Within the Ancestral Recoding Method™, Dionne guides Phases 4-6: Recode, Embody, and Remember.
Dionne Setien facilitates all 6 phases of the Ancestral Recoding Method™ for English-speaking clients. She guides you from Awareness to Remembering, integrating meditation, hypnosis, nervous system regulation, and personalized integration tools.
Together, They Create a Transformational Container
Structured emotional pattern exploration
A guided process to uncover the roots of repeating patterns with precision and respect for your story
Guided release practices
Gentle yet powerful techniques to release the emotional charge stored in your body and subconscious
Personalized integration tools
Custom practices designed for your unique nervous system, lifestyle, and healing journey
Ongoing support for real-life application 66-90 days of WhatsApp support so you're never alone as you integrate the shift into your daily life
"I return to who I truly am."
Lilian's Approach: Working at the Root
Facilitator of Phases 1-3 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™ in Spanish.
Awareness, Lineage, and Release
"When you make the unconscious conscious, you begin to experience real change."
In the Ancestral Reset journey, Lilian brings her expertise in guiding you through the first three phases of the method:
PHASE 1: Awareness
Identifying repeating patterns
Recognizing what keeps showing up in your life, relationships, and self
PHASE 2: Lineage
Understanding the emotional and subconscious origin
Tracing the root of the pattern to where it began—sometimes generations ago
PHASE 3: Release
Let go of the emotional charge
Releasing burdens you no longer need to carry—gently letting go of emotional weight that was never yours
This is where the pattern is seen, understood, and released.
Lilian's work is precise, compassionate, and rooted in a profound understanding of how the past continues to shape the present—and how releasing what was never yours can transform your entire life.
Break the Pattern. Free Your Lineage.
Lilian's Tools: Uncovering, Releasing, and Integrating
Facilitator of Phases 1-3 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™: Awareness, Lineage, and Release
In the Ancestral Reset journey, Lilian uses these powerful tools to guide you through the first three phases:
Modality: Personalized Affirmations
How it Helps: Rewire self-doubt into self-trust with words crafted for your unique journey
Modality: Somatic Awareness
How it Helps: Release emotional weight stored in your body for years—sometimes generations
Modality: Journaling (Intention Journaling)
How it Helps: Uncover hidden patterns and document your transformation, laying the foundation for identity shifts and manifestation work
Modality: Healing Rituals
How it Helps: Anchor new patterns into daily life, so change becomes lived, not just understood
"Claim Your Freedom Today."
Dionne's Approach: Rewiring the Subconscious, Calming the Nervous System
Facilitator of Phase 4 (Recode) in sessions for Spanish-speaking clients, with Phases 5-6 (Embody and Remember) delivered via WhatsApp support.
For English-speaking clients, Dionne facilitates all 6 phases (sessions + WhatsApp support).
"When the root is cleared, we create space for new patterns to take root—through the body, the mind, and the soul."
In the Ancestral Reset journey, Dionne guides you through the final three phases of the method:
PHASE 4: Recode
Focus: Install new beliefs
What Dionne Helps You Do: Using meditation and hypnosis to access the subconscious and plant new, empowering beliefs
PHASE 5: Embody
Focus: Integrate change into daily life
What Dionne Helps You Do: Regulating your nervous system so your body learns to respond from safety, not fear
PHASE 6: Remember
Focus: Return to who you truly are
What Dionne Helps You Do: Anchoring your new identity through personalized affirmations, somatic awareness, journaling, and healing rituals
This is where the pattern ends. And you remember who you've always been.
The Tools Dionne Uses to Guide You
Dionne is the facilitator of Phases 4-6 of the Ancestral Recoding Method™ in Spanish: Recode, Embody, and Remember, or the entire method, Phases 1-6, in English.
Modality: Meditation & Hypnosis
How It Helps: Access the subconscious to install new beliefs and release old imprints
Modality: Nervous System Regulation
How It Helps: Calm your body's survival responses so you can live from safety, not fear
Modality: Personalized Affirmations
How It Helps: Rewire self-doubt into self-trust with words crafted for your unique journey
Modality: Somatic Awareness
How It Helps: Release emotional weight stored in your body for years—sometimes generations
Modality: Intention Journaling
How It Helps: Uncover hidden patterns and document your transformation
Modality: Healing Rituals
How it Helps: Anchor new patterns into daily life, so change becomes lived, not just understood
Modality: Mindfulness Techniques
How it Helps: Cultivate present-moment awareness and break free from automatic reactions
Modality: Breathwork
How it Helps: Regulate your nervous system in real time, creating calm and clarity
Modality: Journaling (Intention Journaling)
How it Helps: Uncover hidden patterns, clarify your identity, activate manifestation, and align with your dream life while documenting your transformation
"Claim Your Freedom Today."
"How to Know You're Ready"
You're ready for this work if:
☐ You've done inner work before, but some patterns keep returning
☐ You're willing to show up consistently (even when it feels uncomfortable)
☐ You're open to exploring family history without blame
☐ You feel called to be the turning point for your lineage
Frequently Asked Questions
A: No. Ancestral Reset is a coaching and personal development experience. It is designed for educational and transformational purposes. It is not a substitute for psychotherapy, medical care, or treatment by a licensed mental health professional. If you are experiencing severe trauma or clinical mental health issues, we encourage you to seek support from a licensed therapist.
A: The Ancestral Recoding Method™ is our proprietary 6-phase process designed to help you identify, release, and transform inherited emotional patterns. The 6 phases are:
Phase 1: Awareness
Focus: Identify the pattern
Affirmation: "I see the pattern."
Phase 2: Lineage
Focus: Understand where it came from
Affirmation: "This didn't start with me."
Phase 3: Release
Focus: Let go of the emotional charge
Affirmation: "I no longer carry this."
Phase 4: Recode
Focus: Install new beliefs."
Affirmations: "I choose differently."
Phase 5: Embody
Focus: Integrate change into daily life
Affirmations: "I live this now."
Phase 6. Remember
Focus: Return to who you truly are
Affirmations: "I return to who I truly am."
"You are not broken."
"You are remembering."
For Spanish-speaking clients, Lilian Ruiz facilitates Phases 1-3 in Spanish. Dionne Setien facilitates Phase 4 in the second session, and Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support.
A: The 2-Day Experience focuses on identifying and releasing one core pattern with full integration support. The 8-Week Private Experience is a deeper immersion for multiple patterns or more complex issues, offering more sessions and extended support.
2-Day Experience
2 sessions + 66 days WhatsApp support
Phases Covered :
Phases 1-3 in Session 1
Phase 4 in Session 2
Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support
Best For: Releasing one core pattern
8-Week Private Experience
Format: 8 sessions + extended support throughout the program
Phases Covered: All 6 phases (Awareness → Lineage → Release → Recode → Embody → Remember)
Best For: Multi-layer, deep transformation
A: 2-Day Experience
Phases 1-3 in Session 1
(with Lilian or Dionne).
Phase 4 in Session 2
(with Dionne)
Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support.
Best For: Releasing one core pattern with full integration support.
8-Week Program: Both facilitators are involved throughout. Lilian guides Phases 1-3 for Spanish speakers; Dionne guides Phases 4-6 for English or Spanish speakers.
You are supported by both facilitators throughout
your entire journey. Lilian Ruiz in Spanish or Dionne in English.
Translation for English speakers working with Lilian on the 2-Day Ancestral Reset Program is available as a rare, special-case service for an additional fee. Contact us for more information.
A: Yes. After enrollment, you will receive a detailed Pre-Session Reflection Form. Completing this honestly is the first and most important step.
A: This is such an important question—and the very fact that you're asking it tells me something about you.
This program is designed for individuals who are ready to move from insight to action.
It is not about being "perfect" or having everything figured out. It is about having a high teachability index—a genuine willingness to:
Look honestly at your patterns without judgment
Apply the practices consistently, even when they feel unfamiliar
Trust the process and allow yourself to be guided
If you feel a pull toward this work—even with some nervousness—that pull is often a sign that you are ready. The question is not whether you can do it perfectly.
A: The Ancestral Recoding Method™ is delivered in two languages to serve a wider community.
For Spanish-speaking clients: Lilian Ruiz facilitates Phases 1-3. Dionne Setien facilitates Phase 4 in the second session, and Phases 5-6 via WhatsApp support.
For English-speaking clients: Dionne Setien facilitates all 6 phases of the method, integrating her expertise in meditation, hypnosis, and nervous system regulation.
Both paths lead to the same destination: freedom from inherited patterns and the remembrance of who you truly are.
A: In special cases, English-speaking clients may request to work with Lilian, with Dionne serving as a translator during the session. However, this is a rare, special-case service and is subject to additional fees and availability. Due to the high level of personalized attention required, this option is not available for the full 8-week program and cannot be guaranteed.
If you are an English speaker interested in this option, please contact us directly to discuss your specific situation.
A: That's a very fair question, and I appreciate you asking it.
The honest answer is this is not marketing—it's a mission.
The Ancestral Reset program, as we offer it today—with 1:1 attention, with direct participation from Lilian and me, and with this level of deep support—cannot scale infinitely. Our energy is limited, and our intention has always been to offer quality, not quantity.
We have made a commitment to ourselves: to personally guide the first 1,000 people through this journey. After that, we will close this door to focus on training other facilitators who can carry this unique method to more places.
If you are reading this today, it means there is still a space for you. But we don't know for how much longer.
When the program is no longer available in this format, it will not return. That's why we say, "This moment is unique." This opportunity is too.
A: What a beautiful question—and you're right to want to understand what makes this approach special.
What we offer in Ancestral Reset exists nowhere else. Not because it's a secret, but because it is the result of a unique convergence that is not easily found:
Ancestral Pattern Awareness
Lilian brings years of certified expertise and hundreds of positive cases to the art of identifying inherited patterns. Her approach is precise, compassionate, and rooted in a deep respect for each client's lineage. She helps you see what has been quietly running in the background of your life—patterns that were never yours to carry.
Subconscious Recoding & Hypnosis (Dionne)
Dionne's expertise comes from years of study and experience in psychological settings, working with clients to install new beliefs at a deep level and regulate their nervous system. But more than that, this work was first applied to her own life. She healed her inherited patterns, regulated her nervous system, and rewrote her subconscious beliefs before she ever guided anyone else.
Nervous System Regulation
Daily practices so the change is not just mental, but physical
The Remembering Phase
Not just breaking patterns—returning to who you truly are
66 Days of Support
Ongoing support that ensures the pattern does not return
Two Facilitators, One Purpose
The combination of two perspectives, two experiences, and two hearts working in sync for you. It's not just "another method."
Together, they offer something rare: the integration of years of training, hundreds of real cases, and a deep, lived respect for the lineage of those who come to them. This is not a theory. This is wisdom earned through personal transformation.
And here's the most beautiful part: this unique approach will not stay only with us forever.
In the future, once we have fulfilled our mission of guiding 1,000 people, we will begin training other facilitators so this method can reach more corners of the world. But that training will be to teach others to do what we do today.
What you receive now—with us, live, 1:1—will not be repeated.
That's why we say, if you feel the call, don't let it pass. Your lineage needs you, and we are here for you.
Are you willing to show up and try?
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Ancestral Reset—Scenarios & Case Studies
These stories are not just about breaking patterns. They are about remembering who you were before the pattern ever took hold.
All names and identifying details have been changed to protect client confidentiality. These examples illustrate patterns commonly explored in ancestral coaching work.
Limiting Beliefs About Worth or Success
Imagine a life without the quiet voice saying you're not good enough—where you walk into rooms knowing you belong.
Case Study: David, 33, had built a successful career but felt like an impostor daily. Through ancestral decoding coaching, he traced this feeling to a family story about his mother, who was told as a girl that women didn't belong in leadership. After releasing the inherited pattern, David delivered a keynote presentation without the usual dread—and finally allowed himself to believe the applause.
Feeling Unseen, Devalued, or "Not Enough"
Imagine a life without the ache of being invisible—where your presence matters and your voice is heard.
Case Study: Laura, 40, felt overlooked in every group, despite her accomplishments. She discovered this pattern connected to her great-grandmother, a gifted artist whose work was never acknowledged in her community. After completing the ancestral release process, Laura finally pitched her business idea—and secured funding.
Shame or Humiliation Patterns
Imagine a life without the heat rising in your chest when you remember old mistakes—where you walk free from the past.
Case Study: Carmen, 45, carried shame from a public failure years ago, though no one else remembered it. In her session, she discovered that her grandmother had been publicly shamed in her village, and the emotional pattern had been carried forward through the family line. After release, Carmen shared, "The memory is still there—but the shame is gone."
Jealousy or Insecurity in Relationships
Imagine a life without the constant knot in your stomach when your partner is away—a life where trust comes easily and you feel secure in love, no matter what.
Case Study: Sofía, 31, noticed jealousy arising in every relationship, even with partners who had given her no reason to doubt. In her ancestral coaching session, she traced this pattern to stories passed down about her grandmother's experience of loss during wartime. After completing the release and integration process, Sofía reported feeling "calm inside for the first time" when her partner traveled for work.
Repetitive Partner Conflict
Imagine a life without the same painful arguments playing out again and again—where conflict becomes connection, not combat.
Case Study: Michael, 40, recognized he kept choosing emotionally unavailable partners. Through ancestral exploration, he discovered this pattern mirrored unspoken dynamics in his father's family. After releasing the inherited emotional charge, Michael found himself naturally drawn to a different kind of partner—and for the first time, early conflicts led to productive conversations rather than disconnection.
Money Struggles That Don't Match Your Effort
Imagine a life without the ceiling that appears just as you're about to succeed—where your income finally reflects your work and worth.
Case Study: Elena, 29, worked harder than anyone she knew but could never seem to keep money. In her session, she uncovered that her grandfather had lost everything during political upheaval, and she had unconsciously absorbed a family pattern of financial instability. After completing the release and integration practices, Elena landed a promotion within two months—and for the first time, felt capable of holding onto it.
Guilt Without Clear Cause
Imagine a life without the vague, persistent guilt that has no source—where you finally feel innocent.
Case Study: Theresa, 33, felt guilty anytime she rested or allowed herself to enjoy life. Through ancestral decoding coaching, she traced this to her great-uncle, who had survived a family tragedy while others didn't, and whose unprocessed guilt had echoed through the generations. After completing her release work, Theresa took her first vacation in years—without guilt.
Lack of Direction or Identity Confusion
Imagine a life without the fog of not knowing who you are—where your path feels clear and your purpose certain.
Case Study: Leila, 24, felt lost after college, unable to choose a direction. She discovered through ancestral exploration that her mother had been encouraged to abandon her own dreams to support the family, and Leila was unconsciously honoring that sacrifice by not pursuing her own path. After releasing the inherited pattern, she enrolled in the program she had been afraid to try.
Emotional Heaviness Connected to Family History
Imagine a life without the weight that has no name—where you feel light, free, and fully present in your own body.
Case Study: Andre, 31, carried a sadness he couldn't explain. In his ancestral coaching session, he discovered that his grandfather had lost multiple siblings during a time of famine but never spoke of it—and the grief had been carried in the family's emotional field ever since. After release, Andre said, "I didn't realize I'd been carrying that weight until it was gone."
Case Study: Nina, 41, was brilliant in small groups but froze when speaking to larger audiences. Through ancestral coaching, she traced this pattern to her great-aunt, who had been silenced in her
community and never spoke freely again. After completing her release and integration work, Nina delivered a presentation to
200 people and stayed calm throughout.
Some patterns don’t shift in a few days. They were learned over
the years… and sometimes
carried across generations.
The 8-Week Private Experience is designed for
those who are ready to go deeper. With close
1:1 guidance from Lilian and Dionne, you will work
at the emotional root—releasing what was never
yours and installing new responses that last.
A Final Message from Dionne
If you've made it to the end of this page, it means something in you is listening. Something in you is remembering.
You are not here by chance.
The universe guided you here because it knows you are ready to put down that heavy spiritual backpack you've been carrying—the one that was never yours to hold.
Let me tell you my story.
Not too long ago, I was where you are now. I felt like I was going through the motions of life without truly living it. Something was always… off. Heavy. Incomplete.
I grew up in a communist country, surrounded by scarcity, silence, and survival. Without knowing it, I had absorbed beliefs that weren't mine: that money was hard to earn, that wanting more was dangerous, that my needs would always come last. These beliefs came from my maternal line—from women who had no choice but to survive.
And even though I no longer lived in that reality, my body and my subconscious still did. So I did the work. I surrendered to the ancestral rewiring—that deep process of evolutionary reprogramming where you don't just understand the patterns, you rewrite them from the root.
I practiced the exercises daily. I regulated my nervous system. I embraced meditation and hypnosis.
And little by little, something began to shift.
It wasn't immediate. I remember feeling for several days as if I wasn't myself anymore. As if I had been deprogrammed from all my limiting beliefs. Suddenly, there was nothing left to worry about.
But I also felt the emptiness of what was no longer there.
That space between what I used to carry and what I didn't yet understand about myself. A strange limbo. Disorienting. Necessary.
And then, around day 40, the click happened.
The click that changes everything.
The moment you realize you are no longer the same person who started this journey. The new version of you—the one you didn't even know existed—had finally arrived to stay.
The ancestral rewiring had done its work.
I didn't just feel better about myself. I became a different version of myself. A more elevated Dionne. More at peace. More powerful. I was no longer the woman who survived—I was the woman who lived with purpose, clarity, and freedom.
I honored my ancestors. I thanked them for their teachings—because they did what they could with what they had. And then, gently, I set down what was theirs and walked forward with only what was mine.
I broke every pattern that had been holding me back from my highest potential.
And now I am here. To walk with you.
To tell you:
This is work that, if you do it consistently and with discipline, you will achieve. And we will both see it. The ancestral decoding process is not magic—it is soul science. It is consistency. It is surrender. It is coming home to yourself.
The shift you've been waiting for is possible. And it begins the moment you decide that the pattern ends with you. And when the pattern ends... you remember who you've always been.
With love and the deepest respect for your journey,
